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Counselling Skills



                   Key elements of person-centred theory



                   According to Rogers, the counsellor must meet the following ‘core conditions’ in
                   order to help a client’s positive therapeutic development:

                         •   Genuineness or congruence

                         •   Unconditional positive regard

                         •   Empathetic understanding

                         •   Non-possessive warmth.


                   Explore the core conditions now in more detail.




















                   Genuineness




                   Genuineness is also called ‘congruence’ by Rogers. It means being deeply ourselves
                   and being able to relate to others in a sincere and non-defensive manner. It means
                   being truthful and meaning what we say, rather than pretending to feel things that
                   we do not. If you are not genuine, you will not be able to demonstrate unconditional
                   positive regard or empathy.

                   Complete the activity on the following page to check that you understand the concept
                   of genuineness.



























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