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Counselling Skills
Genuineness
Genuineness is also called ‘congruence’ by Rogers. It means being deeply ourselves
and being able to relate to others in a sincere and non-defensive manner. It means
being truthful and meaning what we say, rather than pretending to feel things that
we do not. If you are not genuine, you will not be able to demonstrate unconditional
positive regard or empathy.
Complete the following activity to check that you understand the concept
of genuineness.
A Activity 1: Case study example – Genuine or not?
During a counselling session, Andy made some remarks that were
extremely homophobic. Ray, the counsellor, felt angry and said that
he found the remarks unpleasant and discriminatory. Was Ray being
genuine/congruent or not? Make notes below.
Check your answer at the end of this workbook.
Admitting that you don’t understand something the person has said or that you don’t
agree with them is being genuine. Genuineness encourages the client to express
themselves in self-disclosure.
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